Alanis e o fata cuminte de fel. A cautat intotdeauna relatiile de lunga durata si spera sa se marite in 2006, numai ca lucrurile nu au mers asa cum a sperat fata. Avea 32 de ani si o gramada de lucruri s-au naruit, cum ar fi: viata. Cand totul se da peste cap, ajungi in diverse stari... ea a pus kilograme peste kilograme. Daca ar fi fost doar asta... Iata ce a declarat Alanis recent:
"No-strings relationships have helped cure me of love addiction. All my life I’ve been in long-term monogamous relationships. I had to break that pattern by not allowing myself to have a relationship for a year, stopping myself from committing to men. I haven’t been celibate. I’ve had lots of dates and lots of sex, but I haven’t been pushing to turn a date into a relationship. This has been a huge thing for me."
Sa speram ca exista cineva care s-o ajute sa depaseasca ambele faze. Trebuie tact, rabdare si multa iubire. Teoretic impotriva vointei ei.